I know it has been a long time since I've blogged but I'm hoping to get back into the swing of things.
So....I've been married for a little over 4 years and just the other day I realized that I didn't know who I was married to. Let me explain. We had baby girl right after we got married so we jumped right into mommy and daddy roles. We never really got that time to just be husband and wife. In this transition I somehow lost who I was and forgot about the man I fell in love with.
I've determined that 2012 is going to be my year of change and my year to get things back in order. First on the list is my marriage. I work so hard at everything else in my life; it is time for me to put some work into my marriage. So I'm am making a conscience effort to getting to know my husband all over again.
One of the first steps I'm taking is dating my husband. I'm not talking about going out for lunch in my most comfy jeans and t-shirt. I'm talking about real dates...makeup and all.
Yesterday was our first date and it was so much fun spending time just the two of us. We didn't do anything super special. We went to putt putt and just had good time followed by lunch at a restaurant that I've never been to. I forgot about the little thing that my husband used to do when we dated like walking around to open the car door for me. It's the little things that make me smile on the inside.
So that's what going on with me right now. I will try to keep you updating on how this journey is going. If you have any tips tricks or advice I'm all ears....
Until next time...
The Grace Series by S.L. Naeole
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